Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman

Eleanor’s fine. Or is she?

“A woman who knew her own mind and scorned the conventions of polite society. We were going to get along just fine.”

eleanorEleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman

Genres: Contemporary, Fiction
Published: 9th May, 2017
Series: N/A
Rating: 4

Eleanor Oliphant has learned how to survive – but not how to live. Eleanor Oliphant leads a simple life. She wears the same clothes to work every day, eats the same meal deal for lunch every day and buys the same two bottles of vodka to drink every weekend. Eleanor Oliphant is happy. Nothing is missing from her carefully timetabled life. Except, sometimes, everything. One simple act of kindness is about to shatter the walls Eleanor has built around herself. Now she must learn how to navigate the world that everyone else seems to take for granted – while searching for the courage to face the dark corners she’s avoided all her life. Change can be good. Change can be bad. But surely any change is better than. . . fine?

Oh, dear. It seems this month I only picked depressing books.

While Eleanor Oliphant is far from fine if you ask me, she’s kind of oblivious to this fact. I expected this might lead to some light, humourous scenarios, but I ended up just feeling bad for her, and every time I had to chuckle, I just felt, I don’t know…embarrassed? I mean, it’s clear this woman has some issues, possibly has some degree of autism, so laughing about her misfortune often just felt weird, but at the same time, we can’t go through all kinds of experiences with a lemon-face, can we? She’s a woman, living on her own, holds a job, and is basically taking care of herself without any help. Basically.

Just as Eleanor observed the world and the people around her like they were some fascinating bug, or other intriguing subject, I observed Eleanor with the same fascination. On one hand, I found it hard to believe that a 30-year-old woman who works in an office is not familiar with emails and smartphones, doesn’t know what a high five is, or how to behave in public, but on the other hand these quirks of hers certainly made everything that went on just the more interesting. Some of her observations were actually quite spot on, and if you think about it, she’s actually quite right? Like, indeed, what’s so cool about those fast food places where you pay for your food, have to carry it and also clean up after yourself? I mean, it does sound like what you’d do at home, indeed! In spite of her lacking in the social skills department, she does have some insight that truly resonated with me.

 “Although it’s good to try new things and to keep an open mind, it’s also extremely important to stay true to who you really are.”

I think there’s way too much emphasis on always looking for new experiences, doing whatever everyone else is doing, pushing boundaries and forcefully putting ourselves into uncomfortable or unknown situations. Why though?

Despite the heartbreaking moments and Eleanor’s inability to integrate herself, this book is actually quite an uplifting one after all. She finds not only friends who care about her, but also the courage to dare to ask for help, and accept support. One of the messages of the story, for me anyway, that it’s never too late. After some truly dark turns down child abuse lane, Eleanor still finds her strength to slowly start turning things around. I truly appreciated how the whole thing didn’t turn into to something sappy, because there were plenty of opportunities to go down the cheesy way. The friendship between Raymond and Eleanor was hands down heart warming, and I think we all need a Raymond in our lives.jakecharles

I mostly listened to this book on Audible, and it was quite immersive. Mind you listening to Eleanor’s conversations with Mummy still makes me shiver. Yikes.

With a touch of darkness, a lot of heart and a sprinkle of fluff, Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine will appeal to fans of character driven contemporaries.

“No thank you,” I said. “I don’t want to accept a drink from you, because then I would be obliged to purchase one for you in return, and I’m afraid I’m simply not interested in spending two drinks’ worth of time with you.”

You go, Eleanor!

Oh, did I mention there’s no romance? *squee*

Also, language! Eleanor is so well spoken and eloquent! I was furiously taking notes, and am not ashamed of it.


Have you read this book? Do you know any similar ones?


  1. Excellent breakdown on this one, Norrie. But still, even though everyone and their mother has read this one, I just can’t get up the enthusiasm to read it. Maybe in another life-time. 😉

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  2. Oh what a beautiful review, Norrie! I’ve seen this book around a little bit, but you’ve really convinced me that I need to give it a try, I love character driven contemporaries and that one sounds really, really good 😀

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  3. Fab review, Norrie. I need to get to this one soon. Your review has made me curious enough about Elanor. She sounds like an interesting character and I love the quotes you shared.

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    1. She was very peculiar, and there were so many other quotable stuff. I sat on it for months but i’m glad i got around to it eventually 🙂


  4. I enjoyed this book but for some reason didn’t adore it like some did and I can’t put my finger on why, it was still a great story and well written though but I do wonder if I struggled with Eleanor herself. She is incredibly well written though and the author created and maintained such a unique voice very, very well!

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    1. I suppose she’s not everyone’s cup of tea 🙂 I think i liked it more cuz of the audio. The narrator was really cool and i could just picture Eleanor so well. But there were some over the top things she said/did i found hard to believe.

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      1. For sure! There was a suspension of belief at times on some of the stuff that Eleanor said because she acted like she was *so* removed from normal life at times and it didn’t seem to sit right. I’ve seen several theories relating to Eleanor and people can’t seem to agree whether she is on the autistic spectrum, badly traumatised, has stilted development or a combination of all three!

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  5. Yes I’ve read Eleanor’s story and quite loved it. It made me think about how there are so many lonely, damaged people in the world. Eleanor was such a strong and memorable character. I will never forget her.

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  6. Yeah this is quite a depressing read. I think that’s a good way to describe how you observe Eleanor. And I really did find this uplifting in the end- even though it took a really dark turn. And I agree that it’s so well written. Brilliant review!


  7. I have been on hold for this book for like a year. I can’t wait to read it. I am 100% with you about how there is too much emphasis on looking for new experiences! Way too much.

    Lovely review as always, Norrie!

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    1. A whole year? Wow, it’s popular! 😀

      Yea, as i get older i’m kinda on the opinion that we should prolly start appreciating the things we have, and just enjoy ourselves rather than chasing new things/experiences all the time.

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